Alhamdulillah kerana dikurniakan iman yang mantap. Semoga perhubungan antara saudara dan isteri dalam redha Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.

Insya-Allah, doa yang baik pasti dimakbulkan oleh-Nya.

Ada suami seperti cerita di atas. Bukan nak mendabik dada. Suatu masa dulu isteri saya juga seperti itu. Tapi Alhamdulillah. Saya ikhlas menyerahkan diri saya kpd Allah. Akhirnya isteri saya mula belajar menghormati saya. Mengutamakan pandangan saya, mula mendekati agama, dsb.

Saya tidak pernah menceritakan hal masalah rumahtangga saya kpd sesiapa, inilah di posting ini saya ceritakan. Itupun sikit.

Sebab itu saya pernah terdengar, baiknya seorang lelaki adalah melebihi dari baiknya perempuan.

Mudah2an saya dan isteri dapat berjumpa di syurgaNya.

Terima kasih kerana sudi memberi komen. InsyaAllah, masih ada lagi suami yang ingin membimbing isterinya ke jalan yang diredhai Allah…

p/s: Kita bangsa Melayu, utamakan bahasa Melayu yer…

Shukran jazillan for the comment and shukran for spending some of your precious time visiting my humble blog. May the blessings, guidance and protection flows upon you and your lovely family. Aamiin.

“He took 100% wrong step by sharing his sorrow, problems or what ever to other woman while she is not his mahram. The true muslim and muslimah will never open the gate for syaithaan that syaithan can enter the weak hearts.”

Sorry, I guess there’s correction to what you’re trying to elaborate to me. Urm, I didn’t take it as a 100% mistake for him to do that. If you were to recall back on the incident happened in this cerpen, it’s a coincident matter for him. Actually the one who approach that guy is the lady who’ve been working with him. It is so clear that he was too stressed that he simply express out his sorrows and pain to the lady. Perhaps the lady thought that by listening to his problem will help him ease a little at least. This problem occurs beyond his expectation. Well, he was a very quiet man though and he seems to be secretly kept all his problems to himself. He wasn’t the one who approach that lady and having the niat to tell out his problem to her. It’s undeniable when this kind of situation occurs, it’s tough for us to face it. But, I got the chance doing a survey over this kind of problem and to my astonishment it happens everyday in our life. Perhaps, that lady there who’ve been working with him was send by Allah to test whether his eeman was shaken. But, Alhamdulillah, he did only express out his sorrows and pain but not by sharing his heart. Meaning he still own that strong eeman with him.

The only thing that touches my heart so painfully when I heard that his wife was labelled as an Ustazah. This incident happens not only once in our life. But many times. Not only her, but there’s many of them out there. I’m not sure why actually this happening. As an Ustazah, I’m sure that the knowledge that she’ve been holding to can basically train her own akhlaQ as a true muslimah. Plus as a true wife. It’s good enough though to have a husband who could still be patience with her attitude which is terribly rude. She even dare to torture her own husband. So, now the question is, who’s heart is the weakest here? And I guess the Syaithaan has even conquered fully of his wife heart. She didn’t even respect her own husband. I’m wondering what she’s been studying all this while and how did she hold on to the knowledge of Allah with her? Afterall, what’s beyond our expectations, only Allah, the Almighty knows. We can’t even predict the number of our eye lashes what else her husband heart. Extra informations here: Guys are very different from all kinds of women. Their problems or sorrows is too intricate for us to know. Unless, that guy has been labelled as a PLAYBOY.

Read this cerpen and take it as an experience for you all. But not for us to point finger on the mistake they’ve done. Hence no matter who you are, with high qualifications or you may be ustazah, ustadz, al muslimah al solehah or any ordinary people, just don’t forget that we’re still a human being with weakness. We’re not malaikat. We can’t run away from our own mistake. Wallahu ‘alam…

As a good muslim, as a good husband, instead of sharing his problem to non mahram that made him closer to the arrow of devil, it’s better for him to make himself closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala and seek the help from Him, and ask for hidayaah for his wife.
As a good muslimah, Emma should control her self and advice her self not to be close to man (non mahram), especially to the married man. She thought she did a very good job being a good listener. Infact she was one of the arrows of syaithan.

“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gazeand guard their modesty:that will make for greater purity for them:And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.
And say to the believing women that they should lower their gazeand guard their modesty;that they should not display their beautyand ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof…..[Qur'an An Nur 24: 30-31] ”

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said,”Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third.”[Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3118 Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab]

Imam Muslim reported on the authority of Jabir ibn `Abdullah, who stated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
“Iblis (Satan) places his throne upon water, then sends his groups. The closest to him are those who (tempt people to) commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). One of them would approach him and say: I did such-and-such. Iblis would reply: You have done nothing. Another would approach and say: I did not leave him (a man) until I caused him to leave his wife and for them to be separated. Iblis would bring him close to his throne and would say: How good you are!”

Wassalaamu’alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu

Ummu Haleema